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Joy with Spirit! So many times students come to me because they have lost all joy of working with the spirit world. Usually because they put too much pressure on themselves or they are in a wrong circle or course where they get critisised too much. They lose their confidence and they lose their joy of doing the work. I believe that this is not what spirit wants. They want to work with us, they want the world to know that they are there. They want us to have great lifes and do great work for them. So why is this happening? Why do we beat ourselves and our fellow students, mediums up about how we work? Partly it is human nature. Most of us are perfectionists, or insecure, or have a strong will to do things the right way. But, what is the right way? And who are we to decide what the right way is. Does spirit not know for the best what the right way is. We are all different and we all work in a different way, which gives spirit the chance to work with us all in the way they suits us and them best. We as mediums, need to let go of the want to control and to be perfect. We are perfect just as we are. We put too much emphasis on evidence and bringing the best evidence for the sitter. And yes, if you are a working medium and you ask money from your clients then you should be able to bring this so that they are convinced that their loved ones are still with them. But to get to this stage takes time, it can take many many years before you are ready to give private readings or do demonstrations of mediumship. All this time is for you, to learn, to develop, to become confident and to find joy in the work that you do. If there is one thing that I have learned over all my many years of mediumship it is to keep on enjoying yourself. Do not go out there to work too soon, give yourself a chance to become the natural medium that you are meant to be. Enjoy and feel free to share! Love, Jason