What makes a good medium?

Jason Goldsworthy

My first anwers to this would be empathy, kindness, honesty, hard working, dedicated, learning, being able to connect with people. A good medium also needs to have a great love for the spirit world.

A good medium needs to be empathic and kind. You need to be able to feel with your sitter, to feel when they are getting overwhelmed, sometimes hearing from your loved one can be very emotional. You, as a medium, must be able to recognise this. This is also why you have to be kind with your words. Sometimes it can be needed to be direct with a sitter, but sometimes it is needed to wrap the message up in kindness. A good medium will sense this and act accordingly.

Mediumship does not happen overnight. Yes, some of us may have a bigger talent for it then others, but to develop this talent further requires time, effort and a willingness to learn from other mediums, mentors, tutors, spiritual guides and the spirit communicators. You have to be willing to sit in the power for many times, before you feel that you are ready to give a reading, the connection to the spirit world has to be strong. Some advice that I usually give is do not run before you can walk.

What is also very important is that connection to people, As a medium you are connection with the spirit world, but you are also connecting with your sitters. You must like to be with people to talk to them, and to help them.

Do I feel, that I am a good medium? Well I certainly love the connection with the spirit world, I love the connection with other people, I am empathic and kind, I am also hard working and dedicated. I sit in the power every day to built my connection to the spirit. But, for me, mediumship is an ongoing journey, it is the journey of my lifetime here on earth. I feel like I will never stop learning about the spirit world. I feel like there will always be more knowledge to discover, more ways in which I can develop my trust in spirit, more ways in which spirit can work with me.

Being a good medium, is being the best you can be at this moment in time, and that is something that I hope to be able to keep on giving to you all, and more importantly to the spirit world. It is so important that their messages keep coming across to us, so that we can learn and develop in love and kindness.

I offer a beginnerscourse in mediumship from february 2022, it is on this website under courses. Also, there is a completely selfstudy course on mediumship available as well. You can find information on that here.

The whole talk is in the video, I hope you enjoy it, feel free to share this blog wth your friends.

Love, Jason

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You are unique

by Jason Goldsworthy • 3 September 2023

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Life

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 2 June 2022

Maybe you have not heard it, but since april this year I have my very own mediumship community on teachable.com. You can find it via this link . (https://jason-goldsworthy.teachable.com/p/mediumship-membership). For only 9,99 USD per month you can watch videos, talk with each other, get to know new people, have a one hour live session with Jason and with Ursula each month together with the group, new theme based videos uploaded every month! It's a lovely community of people who love spirituality and mediumship, who want to share and inspire, so why not join them and us! This video is the recording I did for may, all about life. Enjoy, and join our community so that you can get access to all the recordings. Love, Jason

Clairgustance

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 12 May 2022

The last video in my series about the six clairs, This one is all about clairgustance, also known as clairtasting. Some mediums can taste the favourite foods of a passed loved one. Being a former chef myself, I can sometimes not only taste the food but also the ingredients of that recipe. Sometimes mediums can taste a favourite alcohol or a medicine with a definite taste. This is what the spirit world can bring as evidence of their survival. It is not one of the most used clairs, but definitely worth trying to practise and develop it. Enjoy the video and feel free to share. Love, Jason

Clairalience

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 5 May 2022

And here is the next one in the series about the clairs, clairalience or clairsmelling. Smells can be powerful triggers to bring back a memory. This also goes for memories of loved ones, your mothers favorite perfume, or your granddads cologne, or a typical smelling cigar that your neighbour used to smoke. If you are giving a reading and all of a sudden smell something then this can mean that the spirit world is giving you a message about them through this smell. If you watch the video, then you will find out more about my views of clairalience and how you can use it, enjoy and feel free to share. Love, Jason

Claircognizance

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 21 April 2022

I have just realised that it has been a while since I wrote a blog. As you may have guessed writing is not my biggest passion, but I do enjoy making videos. And I have been making those every week for you all to watch and learn from. There are so many wrong ideas about mediumship that I feel it is important to keep making these videos to bring out clear, down to earth views on mediumship and the spirit world. My last couple of videos have been about each of the clairs, I have done clairvoyance (https://youtu.be/8pVlICnjsSs), clairsentience ( https://youtu.be/DSrUvJC6W3U) and clairaudience (https://youtu.be/FM5RDfAFUKg) and this week I have done claircognizance. Clairvoyance is all about seeing, you can see objectively with your own eyes or subjectively, eg with your third eye. Clairsentience is all about feeling, you can feel what the spirit communicator is giving you as evidence. Clairadience is where you hear the spirit communicator, and claircognizance is where you just know what spirit is letting you know. I hope you enjoy this series about the clairs. Love, Jason

Joy with Spirit

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 31 March 2022

Joy with Spirit! So many times students come to me because they have lost all joy of working with the spirit world. Usually because they put too much pressure on themselves or they are in a wrong circle or course where they get critisised too much. They lose their confidence and they lose their joy of doing the work. I believe that this is not what spirit wants. They want to work with us, they want the world to know that they are there. They want us to have great lifes and do great work for them. So why is this happening? Why do we beat ourselves and our fellow students, mediums up about how we work? Partly it is human nature. Most of us are perfectionists, or insecure, or have a strong will to do things the right way. But, what is the right way? And who are we to decide what the right way is. Does spirit not know for the best what the right way is. We are all different and we all work in a different way, which gives spirit the chance to work with us all in the way they suits us and them best. We as mediums, need to let go of the want to control and to be perfect. We are perfect just as we are. We put too much emphasis on evidence and bringing the best evidence for the sitter. And yes, if you are a working medium and you ask money from your clients then you should be able to bring this so that they are convinced that their loved ones are still with them. But to get to this stage takes time, it can take many many years before you are ready to give private readings or do demonstrations of mediumship. All this time is for you, to learn, to develop, to become confident and to find joy in the work that you do. If there is one thing that I have learned over all my many years of mediumship it is to keep on enjoying yourself. Do not go out there to work too soon, give yourself a chance to become the natural medium that you are meant to be. Enjoy and feel free to share! Love, Jason

When in Rome...

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 15 March 2022

Rome, an amazing city with so much to see. My feet hurt, my back is in pain, but it was so worth it. The colloseum, the Vatican,the Trevi fountain, the hundreds of churches, the Pantheon, the aquaucts, the forum, there was so much. The energy was wonderful, there are some real power spots to be found. We, Ursula and myself, explored the city for three days and I can recommend it to anyone. It is worth a visit. On the rooftop of our hotel a lovely terrace was built, not open yet, because it was too cold, but you could sit there and watch the city from above. One morning when I woke early, I decided to go upto the roof to record a meditation for you all to enjoy. So you could all share in a little bit of the roman feeling. Enjoy and feel free to share! Love, Jason

Mediumschaps Retraite in Huissen

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 1 March 2022

We mogen weer! En we hebben er zin in . Wie zijn we? John Eversdijk en Joke Hetem, bekend van de Inner Journey en de Amersfoort Spiritualist Church, en Ursula en ikzelf, gaan samen een weekend mediumschaps retraite organiseren. Waar? Het Dominicanen Klooster in Huissen ( Stadsdam 1, 6851 AH Huissen, Netherlands) Wanneer? 10, 11 en 12 juni 2022 Wat zit erbij? H et weekend is all in, met overnachtingen, vegetarisch eten, koffie. Wat gaan we doen? Mediumschap, healing en spiritualiteit. Je gaat zelf aan de slag om dit weekend een grote stap te maken in je mediumschap en jezelf. Wij begeleiden je in liefde en de spirituele wereld begeleid je op hun liefdevolle manier. Je zult je uitgerust, opgeladen, en vrij voelen na dit weekend. Wat kost dit? Een standaard arrangem ent, dit is een gedeelde kamer, toilet en douche op de gang, kost 395 Euro. Wil je een eigen kamer dan komt hier Eur 19,50 per nacht bij op. Wil je een gedeelde kamer met eigen douche dan komt hier een toeslag van Eur 10,- per persoon per nacht bij. Wil je een eigen kamer met eigen douche, dan komt er Eur 29,50 per nacht bij. Ik wil erbij zijn! Dat kan, je kan je aanmelden via de mail . Love, Jason

The power of grounding

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 24 February 2022

Staying grounded is such an important part of your life when you are working with energy such as the energy of the spirit world. The energy of the earth is something that we can draw our own energy from. It is no wonder that almost all of us feel better after being in nature, or standing barefoot in a gras field. The earth energy is what grounds us and keeps us stable and calm. If you are working with the spirit world then your energy needs to be raised. You bring your frequency up, to then calm down again you need to bring the energy down again. In this video I guide you through some breathing techniques that you can use to keep yourself calm. Enjoy the video about this subject and do let me know what you thought or what methods you use to ground. Love, Jason

Sensitivity

by Jason Goldsworthy CSNU • 23 February 2022

Are you that puzzle piece that is just not fitting into the puzzle? Are you feeling out of your place in this world, then welcome to my world. I have felt like that often enough as a child, a youngster and even now. I just do not always fit into the puzzle. Too sensitive, too emotional, too easily upset, too much, I hear it a lot. Why can you just not let it go, why does it upset you so much? Things that I get asked often. To be honest I sometimes do not even know myself why I feel so much. It is just in my dna. I do not try to hide it anymore, I work with it, I use my sensitivity to bring positivity to others. What used to be considered as a weakness is something I now consider as my strenght! Sensitivitiy is a powerful tool that we can all use to help others and to make the world a little better. Enjoy the video about this subject and do let me know what you thought or how you are going to use your sensitivity as your strenght. Love, Jason